The world we live in today is filled with women who believed they got married to one of the best men on earth, only to get welcomed with a fresh habit of cheating a year or two into the marriage.
If you're one of those women, I empathise with you, because I honestly understand how hurtful this can be. Based on demand, I had to write this article. So let's trust that by the time you're done reading, you must have gotten more than just a powerful prayer against the other woman.
The feeling that comes with having a promiscuous husband is one of the most distressing and depressing feelings in the world. Because of this particular situation, many women have gone overboard to do things they're not supposed to do. I believe that the Lord can restore your husband and marriage without you having to engage in acts that are against His Word.
For the cheating husbands (who are probably also reading this), let's quickly remind them one thing the Bible says about them:
Proverbs 6:32 NLTBut the man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys himself.
God's command concerning adultery in Exodus 20:14 “You must not commit adultery,” is still binding. God never lowered His standards to accommodate or tolerate infidelity in marriage. Every married man out there should treat this as a warning.
In this prayer article, we will touch on some of the following points:
- How to deal with a cheating husband spiritually
- What does God want me to do if my husband cheated
- Praying for my cheating husband
- Prayer for the other woman to leave my husband
- Fasting prayers for unfaithful husband
- Dangerous prayer to get my husband back
If you stumbled on this article during your search for a solution to the habit of your cheating husband, I understand how urgently you want to get your husband back. My prayer for you is that the Lord brings you permanent solution to whatever is eating up your marriage, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
How Do I Win My Cheating Husband Back?
There are many ways to go about this (which we will learn as we progress). But as a Christian, I advise you to not go out of God's will to do anything strange. Remember, many women still go to jail daily for fighting and hurting other women over a man. Put yourself together and be resolute, you'll find the best way to deal with your cheating husband.
How To Make The Other Woman Go Away
First of all, I'm glad to learn that there are women who choose prayer under circumstances as this, instead of opting for diabolic means to get their husband back. But I'll also like to stress that prayer isn't a mantra that should be used to cause evil to befall people who hurt us. We must be very careful when using prayer in such a case as that of a promiscuous spouse.
Hebrews 13:4 NLTGive honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery.
God's stance on marriage and adultery is clearly spelled out in scriptures. God owes it to judge anyone who violates the marriage covenant for any reason. Recompense is the Lord's and not ours; one shouldn't try to play God's role by wanting to punish another woman for breaking their marriage.
Even in certain scenarios where the other woman is believed to have used witchcraft or manipulation to trap your husband, it is because your husband accepted to be trapped. Look at what the Bible says:
Proverbs 5:22 BSBThe iniquities of a wicked man entrap him; the cords of his sin entangle him.
Did the woman use seduction? See what the Bible says about that:
James 1:14 NIVBut each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed.
Witchcraft spells and manipulation don't work on a godly man who is focused on building his home. It is because a married man is unguarded against lust and promiscuity that he is easily ensnared by a strange woman.
By the way, this wasn't meant to be a teaching. But stay put because we're still going to pray.
How to make the other woman go away? So sorry, you may not succeed in making the other woman go away if your husband isn't self-disciplined. Even if you happen to succeed in making trouble with the other woman and making her want to quit, an unfaithful man will either continue cheating with her secretly or with another woman entirely.
It is better to focus on your man, reprove him and try to make him do right. If you can successfully get your husband to correct his wrongs, he could by himself cut ties with the other woman.
I will also like to stress that, some women intentionally ruin their home and then blame their husband when he starts looking outside. The easiest way to keep your man and shield him from other women is being a good wife to him. Treat him as a king that he is. Be his peace and not his chaos, then he will always be desperate to come home and be with you.
The Bible gives express instructions on how a good woman should be. Are you following and applying those instructions in your marriage?
If you are not treating your husband the way he deserves, you're going to lose him, and prayer may not bring him back. Do a self-introspection and correct your wrongs just in time before you lose your man to another woman. That's better than searching for dangerous prayers to keep the other woman away.
How To Deal With A Cheating Husband Spiritually
Sometimes you really want to teach your husband a lesson for his misdeeds. But before going extra mile to deal with the cheating husband, I want you to carefully consider the following factors:
1. What Made Your Husband Cheat
- Did you marry a faithful man? I believe that before you agreed to marry your man, you must had taken time to know him and learned what sort of man he is. I don't see a situation where any wise woman would agree to settle down with a man she already knows will definitely cheat on her in marriage. If you saw the red lights while dating him but still went on to settle down with him, then it is right to blame yourself.
- Are you yourself a good woman? Are you the wise woman who diligently builds her home or the one who tears it down with her own hands, opening doors for other woman to come in and replace her? This is a question for self-introspection.
Proverbs 14:1 NIVThe wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.
If you believe you are a good woman who has been diligently building her home according to biblical standards but your man still went on to cheat, then it's totally his fault. God will work with your innocence to proffer you the best solution.
- Do you perform your duties as a married woman? Your marital duties as a woman are not meant to be left for a house help or nanny, your sister, your relatives, the man's family or your children. There are many things you shouldn't allow anyone else to do for or with your man.
- Do you prioritise your marriage and give it quality time? It is funny but true that some women only want to get married due to family or peer pressure; as a means to use the marital status of “Mrs” to gain societal respect and reputation; or to not be classed under 'the single womens' club. They don't really care about loving a man and they don't value marriage. They either value their job, money or something else more than marriage, so they give more time and priority to that.
Matthew 6:21 NIVFor where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Believe me, I'm doing my best to not be biased here and this isn't me justifying a cheating man. Not everyone is a habitual cheat; some imbibed it as learned behavior out of a bad marriage. Both men and women do cheat, and sometimes it's not willful; they were forcefully pushed to that place by their own spouse.
If you've answered the above questions on what made your husband cheat and found out you're not responsible in any way, then we'll proceed to the major steps on how to deal with a cheating husband spiritually:
2. Talk To God About It
Seek God's wisdom, understanding and revelation on what caused your man to start cheating; how to act or what you are suppose to do in the situation.
3. Speak With Your Husband
Instead of searching for ways to punish him or using spiritual means to make him focus on just you, sometimes simply talking things out could reveal why your husband started cheating, thereby bringing a swift solution to it.
4. Seek Christian Marriage Counselling
It may become necessary to seek marriage counselling from the desk of a certified Christian marriage counselor. Arraigning your husband before your pastor to answer some questions isn't always the best choice.
5. Pray For Your Marriage
Most marriages are broken due to inadequate prayer. One of your conjugal duties as a spouse is to cover your marriage spiritually through prayer, knowing that the enemy is out and fighting hard against Christian marriages. In a situation where your husband is not so prayerful, it makes things even harder.
Do not wait until things start to go wrong. If your husband is not very prayerful, you should understand what that could cause early enough to take up the responsibility of ruggedly praying for your marriage. Give no room for the enemy to slide in to wreak havoc.
Even if your marriage is already in a place where it needs urgent revival and your husband is already cheating, do not relent in praying. God can still turn things around.
Prayer For My Cheating Husband
Before you pray these prayers, make sure you've followed through and fixed every fault that have been identified in this article. Remember that prayers do not replace other things people should do to make things work in their marriage.
- Father, I commit my marriage into Your hands. I ask that You take control and put the enemy off my marriage, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- Father, my marriage is not the way You intended it to be. I ask that You intervene and bring an end to everything that is troubling my marriage, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- I bring my husband before You today, dear Lord. I ask that You discipline and reprove him. Cause him to see his wrongs and correct them, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- I come against every spirit of distraction working against my man to prevent him from focusing on our marriage. Let such spirit be arrested now, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- Every witchcraft spell and manipulation used to entrap my husband, I command you to be broken now by the power of God, in the Name of Jesus Christ!
- Father, I ask that You deliver my husband from the strange woman. I come against and break every spiritual cord tying both of them together, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- I take ownership over my marriage as the rightful woman and close every door through which the enemy must have gained access to attack my marriage, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- Every spirit of lust and pervasion working against my husband, be arrested now, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- I loose my husband from the bonds of every other union that Heaven has not approved. Such relationships shall not stand, in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ!
- By the power of God, I seize back my marriage from the hands of the enemy, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- Lord, I ask that You forgive and turn away my husband from adultery. Cause him to see his disobedience to Your word and amend his ways, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- I cover my marriage with the blood of Jesus Christ. I shield it from further manipulation of the enemy, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
- Father, I ask that You bring a permanent solution to the problems of my marriage and restore my marriage to Your original plan, in the Name of Jesus Christ.
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Do not pray these prayers just once and give up. Make sure you persistently pray them until you see results.
Fasting Prayers For Unfaithful Husband
You may also want to be on fasting while praying these prayers and more. But that's not a directive from me. It should be a personal choice or an instruction from God.
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Final Thoughts On Prayer Against The Other Woman
If you caught your husband cheating on several occasions, try to call him to order. If he loves you and values the marriage, he will retrace his steps. If he refuses to listen, it is his choice. He's an adult and you can't force him to do right.
At this juncture, I hope you understand that a powerful prayer against the other woman may be a misfire and misplaced priority.
It is best to get a God-fearing man and spare yourself heartaches. A God-fearing man is submitted to God and doesn't cheat on his wife, not because he's scared of her but because he fears God and wouldn't want to destroy his relationship with the Lord.
At the end of the day, getting a cheating husband back is not guaranteed. It will happen if God says so, if you do your part to make it happen and if the man decides to return and stay faithful to you.
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Until next time. Remain blessed!
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